Communication and Action Approval System and Method

ABSTRACT

A computer-based method for real-time communication authorization includes receiving, from a first communication device, a communication request, verifying, with a verification engine, a pre-approval status of the communication request, storing the communication request is an approval queue if the communication authorization the pre-approval status is, set to false, issuing an alert to the authorization device, and receiving one or more authorization parameters from an authorization device.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

This application is a continuation-in-part of U.S. patent applicationSer. No. 14/519,115 filed on Oct. 20, 2014, which claims the benefit ofU.S. Provisional Application 61/892,7589 filed on Oct. 18, 2013, thecontents of the which are incorporated herein by reference in theirentireties.

FIELD OF THE INVENTION

The present invention relates generally to communication, social andaction approval systems.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

In today's world, most children want to communicate with their friendsusing telephones, SMS/MMS and chat technologies, as well as private andpublic status and media (photo/video) sharing web, native and mobileapps. Most children also want to visit websites, watch videos, playgames, shop, bank, and do many other things that adults enjoy doing withweb, native and mobile apps.

The use of such communication systems b children presents a number ofproblems. One such problem is that if parents or guardians allowchildren to have communication means (e.g., email, text messaging, chat,etc.), they cannot control with whom the children communicate. Anotherrelated problem is allowing children to communicate with other childrenand adults that are part, of the groups (e.g. teams, classes, camps,religious associations, etc.) in which they participate. A furtherproblem is that if parents or guardians allow children to use other web,native and mobile apps (e.g., shopping online), or playing a communitygame through an app or device, they have no way of controlling with whoma child communicates, or whether transactions or sensitivecommunications with the app should be allowed (e.g., whether a child isallowed to shop and buy something, or whether a YouTube® video requiresapproval before viewing). An additional problem is that if parents orguardians allow their children to use a desktop, laptop or tablet/mobilecomputer to visit websites or use apps, they cannot discern what,activities those children participated in after the fact, or approvethose activities while they were occurring.

As set forth above, current communication, web, native and mobile appplatforms do not have systems that allow parents or guardians to approvethe people or groups with whom their children communicate, or to approveactions children would like to perform in web, native, and mobile apps.Moreover, these app platforms do not feature web, native or mobile appsallow for tracking of activity to report back to parents or guardians.

Current monitoring services for desktops, laptops and some tablets andmobile devices are complex, require installation, and are typicallydifficult to install. Additionally, such services must be installed tooperate concealed from all users, and are not targeted to solve thespecific problem of helping parents and guardians understand what theirchildren axe doing with technology so that ensuing discussion andeducation may take place.

BRIEF SUMMARY OF EMBODIMENTS OF THE INVENTION

Embodiments of the present disclosure are directed toward acommunication, social, and action approval system and method. Some suchembodiments are directed toward a system that works in between the childand the activity in which the child is attempting to participate, or inwhich they are actively participating. Specifically, a parent orguardian may, select an option that requires their approval ofcommunication and other web and mobile activities before they occur.Further embodiments of the invention allow parents or guardians toselectively view prior activities of their child or children. Theseembodiments are implemented without the need for stealth installationand with complete transparency for the child to see that they are beingapproved and monitored.

One embodiment of the disclosure is directed toward a non-transitorycomputer readable medium having computer executable program codeembodied thereon, the computer executable program code configured to:provide a secure digital citizenship service that requires parent orguardian approval of a selected communication, social or other web ormobile activity before the activity can occur.

Other features and aspects of the invention will become apparent fromthe following detailed description, taken in conjunction with theaccompanying drawings, which illustrate, by way of example, the featuresin accordance with embodiments of the invention. The summary is notintended to limit the scope of the invention, which is defined solely bythe claims attached hereto.

BRIEF DESCRIPTIONS OF THE DRAWINGS

The present disclosure, in accordance with one or more variousembodiments, is described in detail with reference to the followingfigures. The drawings are provided for purposes of illustration only andmerely depict typical or example embodiments of the invention. Thesedrawings are provided to facilitate the reader's understanding of theinvention and shall not be considered limiting of the breadth, scope, orapplicability of the invention.

FIG. 1 is a block diagram illustrating a system for real-timecommunication authorization consistent with embodiments disclosedherein.

FIG. 2 is a block diagram illustrating a system for real-timecommunication authorization consistent with embodiments disclosedherein.

FIG. 3 is a process flow diagram illustrating a real-time communicationapproval process consistent with embodiments disclosed herein.

FIG. 4 is a process flow diagram illustrating a pre-verificationcommunication approval process consistent with embodiments disclosedherein.

FIG. 5 is a process flow diagram illustrating a new contact invitationprocess consistent with embodiments disclosed here.

FIG. 6 is a process flow diagram illustrating a contact verificationprocess consistent with embodiments disclosed herein.

FIG. 7 is a process flow diagram illustrating an Internet data accessapproval process consistent with embodiments disclosed herein.

FIG. 8 is a process flow diagram illustrating a service approval processconsistent with embodiments disclosed herein.

FIG. 9 is a diagram illustrating an exemplars computing module that maybe used to implement any of the embodiments disclosed herein.

These figures are not intended to be exhaustive or to limit theinvention to the precise form disclosed. It should be understood thatthe invention can be practiced with modification and alteration, andthat the invention be limited only by the claims and the equivalentsthereof.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE EMBODIMENTS OF THE INVENTION

The present disclosure is directed toward a communication, social, andaction approval system and method. In some cases, the communication,social, and action approval system and method can be implemented as partof a secure digital citizenship service. In some embodiments, thecommunication and action approval system is disposed between a child andthe activity in which the child is attempting to participate, or inwhich they are already actively participating. In certain embodiments, aparent or guardian may select an option that requires parent or guardianapproval of all communication and other web and mobile activities beforethey occur. In further embodiments, parents can selectively view prioractivities of their child or children.

Several exemplary environments in which the communication and actionapproval system and method may be employed will now be described.

Example 1: For Friends

In this example, a child named Alec uses a secure digital citizenshipservice by searching for a friend in an area by name. If Alecsuccessfully locates his friend, he then requests approval to connectwith the friend. The approval request is then sent to Alec's parent orguardian. In addition, an optional notification may also be sent to theparent or guardian through email, web, native or mobile appnotification. If Alec is unable to locate his friend, he can enter theemail address of his friend's parent(s) or guardian(s) to invite thefriend and his family to join the secure digital citizenship service,thereby restarting the approval process.

Example 2: For Communication

In this example, a child named Belle desires to use the secure digitalcitizenship service to communicate with others. In the case where Bellewants to communicate with an approved friend, she is allowed to do soautomatically. If Belle wants to communicate via email, text message,chat, video-game embedded messenger, voice or video push-to-talk, voiceor video call, status or media post, or voice or video message withsomeone who is not an approved friend, she may attempt to make thecommunication. In operation, the system intercepts the communication,and sends an approval request to Belle's parent or guardian. if theparent or guardian approves the communication, it is forwarded to thedesired party. However, no action is taken without this approval, andnotification of the rejection is not sent to either party. Likewise, ifsomeone other than the child attempts to initiate communication (using auser name, number or address), and that contact point, was notpreviously approved by the parent or guardian, the communication isintercepted, and placed in queue to be approved by the parent orguardian. If the approval is granted, the communication is allowedthrough to the desired party.

Parents or guardians can configure different levels of allowedcommunication based on the party and the child. By way of example, aparent or guardian may allow the child to talk to a particular friend,but be copied on all communication, whereas the parent or guardian cansimply allow communication with another person or group without beingcopied.

In some versions of this example, the level of monitoring may changeover time, such that in a first state, communications are strictlymonitored and the parent or guardian is copied on all communications,but in a second, less restrictive state, the parent or guardian may onlybe copied on some, or none, of the communications, Multiple monitoringstates are possible, and the parent or guardian may manually switchbetween the security states, or set a pre-determined schedule toautomatically reduce monitoring levels over time to less restrictivestates as a child becomes older and more responsible. In some examples,the monitoring may include monitoring for a user's disabling of themonitoring service.

Example 3: For Web, Native and Mobile Applications

In this example, a web, native or mobile application utilizesproprietary application programming interfaces (“APIs”) to query forselected information, or to request action from the digital citizenshipservice. In particular, the proprietary APIs can be used to: (i)determine if child, parent/guardian or family accounts are valid andhave been verified by other users or administrators of the digitalcitizenship service; (ii) request approval from parents or guardians fora child for custom actions from within the web, native or mobile, app,and/or (iii) report activity within the web, native or mobile app forconsumption by the parent or guardian to monitor and measure suchactivity.

Example 4: For Monitoring

In this example, the parent or guardian installs monitoring software onthe target desktop, laptop, tablet or mobile device. When the child logsin to the target device, the software is automatically started andminimized so that the child is aware that monitoring is occurring. Themonitoring software then records screen shots, key strokes, mouse andtouch activity, and websites visited inside of popular browsers.Alternately, any pre-existing software may be configured to utilize adigital citizenship API or proxy to communicate with, a monitoringserver or appliance without the need for installation of software on thetarget device. All of this data is then sent in batches to the digitalcitizenship service servers for parents or guardians to observe. Alertsfor particular types of activities or values of keys typed can be set upby parents or guardians for immediate notification.

Parents and guardians may also see reports of all communication and web,native and mobile app activity that is tracked by the digitalcitizenship service or third party applications that utilize the digitalcitizenship service API or proxy.

Example 5: Security Appliance

In this example, the parent or guardian installs a security appliance onthe families private local area network. The security appliance mayregister with a subscription server hosted on the Internet. The parentor guardian may then configure the security appliance to managecommunication and Internet access for one or more users. In thisexample, all of the communication authorization and monitoring functionsdescribed in Examples 1-3 are performed by the security appliancedirectly such that all communication and monitoring data is storedlocally on the family's private network, and not on a centrally hostedserver.

Referring now to FIG. 1, a system for real-time communicationauthorization includes a user device 126, a contact device 124, anadministrative device 128, and a real-time access control server 100.For example, each of administrative device 128, user device 126 andcontact device 124 may be smart phones, tablet computers, laptopcomputers, or desktop computers. User device 126 may be a requestinitiating communication device with communication software installedthereon, such that the device's user may desire to use the communicationdevice to communicate with the user of the contact device 124. As such,contact device 124 may also be a communication device with communicationsoftware installed thereon. The communication software installed on boththe user device 126 and the contact device 124 may be email software,instant messaging or text messaging software, social media software(e.g., FaceBook®, LinkedIn®, Instagram®, or other social mediacommunication applications), video conferencing software (e.g.,FaceTime®, Skype®, etc.), or voice communication software (e.g., currentcellular phone communication software, Skype®, etc.). Without usingfunctions of the embodiments disclosed herein, a user, using usercontact device 124, would be able to use any of the communicationsoftware applications described above to freely initiate, receive, orotherwise participate in an electronic communication protocol-drivenconversation with another contact using contact device 126 For example,the electronic communication protocol-driven conversation may utilizeInternet communication service 130 (e.g., an electronic messengerservice), cellular data source 132 (e.g., voice or text), InternetCommunication Service 134 (e.g., email), social media source 135, orother Internet data source 138 as would be known to one of ordinaryskill in the art.

Still referring to FIG. 1, the embodiments of the present disclosureprovide a mechanism to restrict and control, in real-time, the abilityof user device 126 to communicate via any of electronic communicationprotocol 130, 132, 134, 135, or 138, with contact device 124. Generally,in one embodiment, an administrative user may first install thereal-time access control software application on the user device 126and/or on contact device 124 and register either or both the user andthe contact with the real-time access control server 100, withinaccess-control list manager 102.

In other embodiments, the real-time access control software applicationis not installed on user device 126 or contact device 124. In theseembodiments, user device 126 may be registered with real-timeaccess-control server 100, such that real-time access-control server 100may directly control, authorize, and/or restrict communications to andfrom the user device. For example, existing software applicationsinstalled on the user device 126 (e.g., chat messenger tools, shortmessage service (SMS) text tools, video games with embedded electronicchat tools, voice communication software, social media interfaceapplications, etc.) may incorporate an API or proxy that communicateswith real-time access control server 100 to control, authorize, and/orrestrict communications initiated with or terminating to those softwareapplications in accordance with the systems and methods disclosedherein. In addition, the administrative user may also access thereal-time access control software application from an administrativedevice 128 and then use administrator device 128 as an authorizationdevice to pre-approve, or authorize, in real-time, a user's ability tocommunicate with a contact using any of these electronic communicationprotocols disclosed herein or as otherwise known in the art.

Still referring to FIG. 1, the user may trigger a communication requestto the real-time access control server 100 by attempting to initiate anelectronic communication protocol-driven conversation with any knowncontact (e.g., a contact who is also registered with or known to thereal-time access control server). As used herein, a communicationrequest may be any communication initiation through communicationprotocols disclosed herein, such as transmission of a text message, chatmessage, social media post, in-game chat, cellular or land-basedtelephone call, or other communication requests capable of beingintercepted by a computer server. As would be appreciated by one in theart, any of these requests operate on known communication protocols thatinclude a detectable initial communication request to open a connectionwith a target device. A computer server, such as the real-time accesscontrol server 100 disclosed herein, is capable of intercepting theinitial communication request inherent in these communication protocolsand/or connecting said communication request to a target deviceaccording to authorization criteria disclosed herein.

In some embodiments, the real-time access control server 100 isconfigured to receive a communication request from the user device 128and verify a pre-approval status of the communication request. Real-timeaccess control server 100 may include access control list manager 102,data store 104, queue manager 106, verification engine 108, andcommunication controller 110. Real-time access Control server 100 mayreceive the communication request, for example, through communicationcontroller 110.

Still referring to FIG. 1, communication controller 110 may store thecommunication request in an approval queue managed by queue manager 106.Queue manager 106 may then create a list of queued communicationrequests in data store 104. Verification engine 108 may analyze eachqueued communication request to determine if the target contact for thecommunication request is pre-approved. For example, an administrator mayinteract with access control list manager 102 to generate a list ofpre-approved communication contacts, along with a list, of communicationauthorization parameters that define the level of communication that isauthorized. For example, the communication authorization parameters mayinclude parameters defining which communication protocols 130, 132, 134,or 138 are authorized for a particular target contact, whether or notthe communications will be logged and archived or displayed in real-timeon an administrative monitor window display available on administratordevice 128, and/or whether the approval will be permanent or temporary(e.g., a permanent approval will authorize all future communicationrequests for the particular target contact according to the definedcommunication authorization parameters, whereas a temporary approval mayonly enable the current communications, or enable communications for alimited period of time specified by the administrator).

In some embodiments, the communication request may include a specifiedcommunication technology selected from a set of supported communicationtechnologies. For example, the set of supported communicationtechnologies may include telephonic voice communication (e.g., telephoneor cellular phone based communication), short message service (RAS)texting, instant messaging, social media, messaging, social mediaposting (e.g., message posting, or access to social media sites likeFacebook®, LinkedIn®, YouTube®, histogram®, or other social mediawebsite), video conference, video game messaging, email, or electronicinteraction retail vendors (e.g., access to c-commerce websites to makepurchases, including Internet sites such as Amazon®, Netflix®, iTunes®,or other c-commerce sites, as well as in-game purchasing).

In some embodiments, if the specified communication technology istelephonic voice communication, then the real-time access control servermay run a voice call authorization process. The voice call authorizationprocess may include intercepting, from the first communication device, avoice call initiation request to a second communication device, placingthe voice call on hold until an enablement flag is set to true by anadministrator, and connecting the call between the first communicationdevice and the second communication device. Accordingly, for example, inthis embodiment, if a user attempts to call a contact from his or hercellular phone, the real-time access control server would intercept thecall and place, the can on hold, initiate an authorization alert to anadministrator, and wait for the administrator to approve the voice callbefore connecting the call to the contact.

Still referring to FIG. 1, verification engine 108 may also verify theidentity of a particular target contact using a verification algorithmas a function of both manual verification parameters and/or automatedverification parameters. Manual verification parameters may include, forexample, verification from other users, manual override from anadministrator as defined in system list of trusted administrators, aninterview from a third party verification administrator in person or viavideo conference. Automated verification parameters may includeverification of a contacts first name, last name, birth date, physicaladdress, email address, phone number, social security number, and/orother identifying information as compared with the same informationstored in public record databases or privately stored contacts lists.Verification engine 108 may then calculate a trust score, T, as afunction of the manual verification parameters, xi(m), and the automatedverification parameters x_(i)(a), such that T=f(x_(i)(m),x_(i)(a)). If Tis greater that a pre defined threshold value, then verification engine108 will confirm the identity of the target contact. If T is less thanor equal to a pre-defined threshold, then verification 108 will passcommunication control lei 110 a non-verified contact message, andcommunication controller 110 will disable communications between theuser and the contact.

Still referring to FIG. 1, if verification engine 108 successfullyverifies the target contact's identity, but communication with thetarget contact has not been pre-approved, then verification engine 108will place an alert message in queue for the administrator seekingapproval of the communication request. Communication manager 110 willthen issue the alert to the administrator device 128, prompting theadministrator to approve the communication request. Approval of thecommunication request may be accomplished by logging into the real-timeaccess control server 100 via a graphical user interface (GUI),displaying the administrator's alert queue, and approving thecommunication request, as well as selecting communication authorizationparameters to define the scope of the authorization. Once thecommunication request is approved, the communication controller 110 willenable communication between user device 126 and contact device 124consistent with the selected communication authorization parameters. Ifthe administrator does not approve the communication request, thecommunication manager 110 will disable communication between user device126 and contact device 124.

In addition to authorizing communication between device 126 and acontact device 124, real-time access control server 100 may also use thesame security mechanism described above to enable, disable, and/orrestrict access to specific Internet data sources (e.g., restriction ofaccess to Facebook®, restriction of access or purchasing ability one-commerce site, streaming media sites, in-game purchases within videogames, etc.). Real-time access control server 100 may also providelogging, archiving, and real-time monitoring of a user's Internetactivity (e.g., tracking pages visited, content viewed, purchases madeon an e-commerce or media streaming site, etc.).

As illustrated in FIG. 1, administrator device 128, user device 126,and, contact device 124 may each communicate through the same, ordifferent Internet gateway devices, or firewalls, to access the Internetand the real-time access control server 100.

Referring now to FIG. 2, a first user device 226 may be a communicationinitiation device, and, a second user device 226 may be a communicationstarget device, or contact device. More than two user devices 226 may bepresent on a network, and registered with real-time access controlappliance 200. Moreover, user devices 226, administrator device 228, andreal -time access control appliance 200 may ill be located on the samelocal area network behind Internet gateway 222, such that real-timeaccess control appliance 200 may also function as an Internet proxyserver/security appliance device. In some embodiments, user devices 226and administrator device 228 may be located on any network, butreal-time access control appliance 200 is located on a private localarea network, as opposed to being centrally hosted on a wide areanetwork the Internet or cloud). In this example, the private local areanetwork is managed and hosted at a private residence, or within acommercial building, for the purpose of managing and authorizingelectronic communication for an individual family or company. Inaddition, contact device 224 may be located on a separate local areanetwork behind a separate Internet gateway 222.

Still referring to FIG. 2, a subscription server, 250, may he hosted onthe Internet and enable licensing for real-time access control server200, as well as for user devices 22 and administrator device 228. Asillustrated, one of skill in the art would appreciate that thefunctionality of the real-time access control system illustrated in FIG.2 is substantially similar to the real-time access control systemillustrated in FIG. 1, except that real-time access control appliance200 is located on a private local area network as real-time accesscontrol server opposed to being centrally hosted.

Some embodiments of the disclosure provide a method for real-timecommunication authorization. Referring to FIG. 3, a method for real-timecommunication authorization 300 includes receiving, from a first userdevice, a communication request at step 305 and verifying, with averification engine, a pre-approval status of the communication requestat step 315. The communication request may specify a target contact withwhom the user desires to communicate and one or more desiredcommunication protocols, such as email software, instant messaging ortext messaging software, social media software (e.g., Facebook®,LinkedIn®, Instagram®, YouTube®, or other social media communicationapplications), video conferencing software (e.g., Facetime®, Skype®,etc.), or voice communication software e.g., current cellular phonecommunication software, Skype®, etc.).

Still referring to FIG. 3, and referring back to FIG. 1, theverification engine 108 may verify the identity of a particular targetcontact using the verification algorithm as a function of both manualverification parameters and/or automated verification parameters.Verification engine 108 may then calculate a trust score,T=f(x_(i)(m),x_(j)(a)). If T is greater that a pre-defined thresholdvalue, then verification engine 108 will confirm the identity of thetarget contact. If T is less than or equal to a pre-defined threshold,then verification engine 108 may pass communication controller 110 anon-verified contact message, and communication controller 110 willdisable communications between the user and the contact. Alternatively,the verification engine 108 may be used to verify identity of systemusers, administrators, or third-parties based on requests from thereal-time communication authorization server, or from third-partyapplications through the use of a verification API or proxy.

The method for real-time communication authorization 300 may furtherinclude inserting the communication request in an administrator queue,at step 325, if verification engine 108 successfully verifies the targetcontact's identity, but communication with the target contact has notbeen pre-approved. For example, the communication request may be storedin an approval queue if the communication request has not beenpre-authorized. The method may further include issuing an alert to theadministrator for approval at step 335.

Still referring to FIG. 3, the method fir real-time communicationauthorization 300 may further include receiving one or moreadministrator authorization parameters at step 345. Approval of thecommunication request may be accomplished by logging into the real-timeaccess control server 100 via a graphical user interface (GUI),displaying the administrator's alert queue, and approving thecommunication request, as well as selecting communication authorizationparameters to define the scope of the authorization. The method may alsoinclude enabling communication between the user and the contact asrestricted by the one or more authorization parameters at step 355 ifthe communication request is approved. If the administrator does notapprove the communication request, communication between the user andthe contact will remain disabled.

Referring to FIG. 4, a method for pre-authorization of a communicationrequest 400 includes receiving a communication request at step 405 andinserting the communication request in an administrative queue at step415. The method may also include issuing an alert to the administratorat step 425 and receiving administrative authorization parameters at,step 435, wherein one of the administrative authorization parameterspre-approves communications between a user and a target contact. Themethod may further include inserting the authorization parameters in anaccess control list at step 445.

Referring to FIG. 5, a new contact invitation method 500 may include,receiving a communication request that specifies an unregistered targetcontact at step 505. For example, the method may include verifying thatthe contact is not a registered system user at step 515. The method mayfurther include issuing an electronic request inviting the contact toregister at step 525. The issuing of the electronic request may actuallybe sent to a target contact's parent or legal guardian if the targetcontact is a minor, or to the target contact's employer if the targetcontact is an employee. The method may also include receiving aregistration acceptance and verifying the contacts identity. Forexample, referring back to FIG. 1, the method may use a verificationengine, such as verification engine 108, to perform an identityverification process. The method may also include registering thecontact with the system if for example, the contact's identity isverified.

Referring to FIG. 6, a verify contact identity process 600 may includereceiving a contact verification request at step 605, receiving manualtrust, parameters at step 615, and/or receiving automated trustparameters at step 625. For example, manual verification parameters mayinclude verification from other users, manual override from anadministrator as defined in system list of trusted administrators,and/or an interview from a third party verification administrator inperson or via video conference. Automated verification parameters mayinclude verification of a contacts first name, last name, birth date,phone number, email address, physical address, social security number,and/or other identifying information as com pared with the sameinformation stored in public record databases or private contactdatabases. The method may also include calculating a trust score, T, asa function of the manual verification parameters, x_(i)(m), and theautomated verification parameters x_(i)(a) at step 635. For example,T=f(x_(i)(m),x_(j)(a)). The method may also include comparing the trustscore, T, with a threshold value to confirm identity at step 645. Forexample, referring back to FIG. 1, if T is greater that a pre-definedthreshold value, then verification engine 108 may confirm the identityof the target contact. If T is less than or equal to a pre-definedthreshold, then verification engine 108 may pass communicationcontroller 110 a non-verified contact message, and communicationcontroller 110 will disable communications between the user and thecontact. Alternatively, the verification engine 108 may be used toverify identity of system users, administrators, or third-parties basedon requests from the real-time communication authorization server, orfrom third-party applications through the use of a verification API orproxy.

Some embodiments of the disclosure provide a method for Internet dataaccess approval. Referring to FIG. 7, a method for Internet data access,approval 700 includes receiving a user request to access an Internetdata source at step 705. For example, the Internet data source may beany of the Internet data sources illustrated in FIG. 1, 130, 132, 134,136, or 138. Moreover, one of ordinary skill in the art, wouldappreciate that the Internet data access request could be to other datasources, available for example on a local area network or database, aswell as any subset of any of the listed Internet data sources, such asInternet website pages that meet certain content or structure criteria.

Still referring to FIG. 7, the method for Internet data access approvalmay further include, verifying the user permissions based on parametersstored in an access control list at step 715, and, if the request is notpre-approved, inserting the request in an administrator queue at step725. One of ordinary skill in the art would recognize that the approvalprocess described herein for Internet data access is substantiallysimilar to the processes illustrated by FIGS. 3-6. For example, themethod for Internet data access approval may further include alerting anadministrator of the access request at step 735 and receivingauthorization parameters at step 745. The authorization parameters mayinclude, fro example, an indication as to whether the request isapproved (e.g., approval=true or false), a parameter indicating howlong, the approval will be effective, and any other limiting parameters,such as whether the user's web browser content will be logged, archived,and/or copied to an administrator monitoring window display. The methodmay also enable the Internet data access as restricted by theauthorization parameters at step 755.

In some embodiments, a family or company may use a shared account tomanage the real time a Tess control server. For example, each userdevice and the administrator device may each register with the real-timeaccess control server using the shared account wherein the sharedaccount includes an administrative login and one or more user logins.Accordingly, the administrator may configure user-specific,authorization parameters for each user on the system. The administratormay then monitor and/or control real-time communication approval foreach user according to the separately configurable user-specificauthorization parameters.

Example 6: Service Approval

Referring to FIG. 8, service approval process 800 may include receivinginstructions to deactivate or reactivate services of the target deviceat step 805. When select or all services of the target device aredeactivated, such as communication and Internet-based services, suchselected services may have restricted use so that the child or usercannot use those services until reactivated by the parent or authorizeduser. However, not all services need be deactivated. Rather, the parentmay selectively determine which services to deactivate on the targetdevice, such as limiting the, deactivation to only Internet serviceand/or chat messenger tools. This allows the child or user to still havelimited access to the other service features still activated on thetarget device, such as voice call by way of example. Additionally, theparent may determine the duration in which the selected services willremain deactivated. Because this deactivation and reactivation ofservices can be performed remotely on the authorization device, thiswholly allows the parents to control and limit the child's services onthe target device without having to confront or require that the childphysically hand over the target device.

The service approval process 800 may be deactivated and reactivated inaccordance to various methods, as indicated at step 810. One method mayinclude deactivating select services of the target device in real-timeat step 815, so that any determined interruption of services may beimmediately administered in real-time. As such, the user or parent maywish to deactivate all or selected services immediately and indefinitelyuntil the parent decides to reactivate services to the target device.The reactivation to the target device can also be performed inreal-time.

Another method may include deactivating and reactivating select servicesof the target device in accordance with determined events that triggerthe deactivation/reactivation of all or selected services at step 820.Here, the parent may have the option of selecting all or select softwareapplications (e.g. chat messenger tools, short message services (SMS)text tools, video games with embedded electronic chat tools, apps, voicecommunication software, social media interface applications, etc.) todeactivate and activate in accordance to a triggered event. For example,the parent or guardian may configure the service approval software sothat all the chat messenger tools are triggered to automaticallydeactivate in the event that the child sends a total of 150 chatmessages within a 24 hour period. By way of another example, the serviceapproval software may be configured so that all communication andinteracts based services of the child's smartphone is deactivated whenthe child is using any game software apps for more than 4 hours on anygiven school day.

Additionally, the reactivation of the target device may also betriggered upon a determined event. For example, the service approvalsoftware may be configured to reactivate the deactivated chat messengertools in the event that the child has not attempted to open the chatmessenger tools or social media apps for a select period of time, suchas a period of 5 hours. B wav of anther example, the service approvalsoftware may trigger the reactivation of select or all deactivatedservices upon the parent's approval from the authorization device.

Additionally, another method may include deactivating and reactivatingcommunication and Internet-based services of the target device inaccordance with a pre-determined time schedule at step 825. For example,the parent or guardian may configure the service approval software sothat services to the target device are deactivated and automaticallyreactivated every day for a select pre-determined time period, such asthe hours between 4:00 P.M.-9:00 P.M. when the child is at home andexpected to do homework.

The time schedule of deactivating and reactivating the select servicesautomatically may occur repeatedly based on the selected time schedule.Thus, if the, parent determines that the target device will bedeactivated and activated at the select time schedule every weekday, thetarget device will be deactivated and reactivated every weekdaythroughout the year until otherwise changed by the user. In otherinstances, the target device may be configured to deactivate/reactivateon a one time scheduled basis. This allows for enhanced variability incontrolling the service features of the target device.

As used herein, the term “system” might describe a given unit offunctionality that can be performed in accordance with one or moreembodiments of the present invention. As used herein, a system might beimplemented utilizing any form of hardware, software, or a combinationthereof. For example, one or more processors, controllers, ASICs, PLAs,PALs, CPLDs, FPGAs, logical components, software routines or othermechanisms might be implemented to make up a system. In implementation,the various systems described herein might be implemented as discretesystems or the functions and features described can be shared in part orin total among one or more systems. In other words, as would be apparentto one of ordinary skill in the art after reading this description, thevarious features and functionality described herein may be implementedin any given application and can be implemented in one or more separateor shared systems in various combinations and permutations. Even thoughvarious features or elements of functionality may be individuallydescribed or claimed as separate systems, one of ordinary skill in theart will understand that these features and functionality can be sharedamong one or more common software and hardware elements, and suchdescription shall not, require or imply that separate, hardware orsoftware components are used to implement such features orfunctionality.

While various embodiments of the present invention have, been describedabove, it should be understood that they have been presented by way ofexample only, and not of limitation. Likewise, the various diagrams maydepict an example architectural or other configuration for theinvention, which is done to aid in understanding the features andfunctionality that can be included in the invention. The invention isnot restricted to the illustrated example architectures orconfigurations, but the desired features can be implemented using avariety of alternative architectures and configurations. Indeed, it willbe apparent to one of skill in the art bow alternative functional,logical or physical partitioning and configurations can be implementedto implement the desired features of the present invention. Also, amultitude of different constituent system names other than thosedepicted herein can be applied to the various partitions. Additionally,with regard to flow diagrams, operational descriptions and methodclaims, the order in which the steps are presented herein shall notmandate that various embodiments be implemented to perform the recitedfunctionality in the same order unless the context dictates otherwise.

Where components or systems of the invention are implemented in whole orin part using software, in one embodiment, these software elements canbe implemented to operate with a computing or processing system capableof carrying out the functionality described with respect thereto. Onesuch example-computing system is shown in FIG. 9. Various embodimentsare described in terms of this example-computing system 900. Afterreading, this description, it will become apparent to a person skilledin the relevant an how to implement the invention using other computingsystems or architectures.

Referring now to FIG. 9, computing system 900 may represent, forexample, computing or processing capabilities found within desktop,laptop and notebook computers; hand-held computing devices (PDA's,tablets, smart phones, cell phones, palmtops, etc.); mainframes,supercomputers, workstations or servers; or any other type ofspecial-purpose or general-purpose, computing devices as may bedesirable or appropriate for a given application or environment.Computing system 900 might al so represent computing capabilitiesembedded within or otherwise available to a given device. For example, acomputing system might be found in other electronic devices such as, forexample, digital cameras, navigation systems, cellular telephones,portable computing devices, modems, routers, WAPs, terminals and otherelectronic devices that might include some form of processing,capability.

Computing system 900 might include, for example, one or more processors,controllers, control systems, or other processing devices, such as aprocessor 904. Processor 904 might be implemented using ageneral-purpose or special-purpose processing engine such as, forexample, a microprocessor, controller, or other control logic. In theexample illustrated in FIG. 9, processor 904 is connected to a bus 902,although any communication medium can he used to facilitate interactionwith other components of computing system 900 or to communicateexternally.

Computing system 900 might also include one or more memory systems,simply referred to herein as main memory 908. For example, preferablyrandom access memory (RAM) or other dynamic memory might be used forstoring information and instructions to be executed by processor 904.Main memory 908 might also be used for storing temporary variables orother intermediate information during execution of instructions to beexecuted by processor 904. Computing system 900 might likewise include aread only memory (“ROM”) or other static storage device coupled to bus902 for storing static information and instructions for processor 904.

The computing system 900 might also include one or more various forms ofinformation storage mechanism 910, which might include, for example, amedia drive 912 and >a. storage unit interface 920. The media drive 912might include a drive or other mechanism to support fixed or removablestorage media 914. For example, a hard, disk drive, a floppy disk drive,a magnetic tape drive, an optical disk drive, a CD or DVD drive (R orRW), or other removable or fixed media drive might be provided,Accordingly, storage media 914 might include, for example, a hard disk,a floppy disk, magnetic tape, cartridge, optical disk, a CD or DVD, orother fixed or removable medium; that is read by, written to or accessedby media drive 912. As these examples illustrate, the storage media 914can include a computer usable storage medium having stored thereincomputer software or data.

In alternative embodiments, information storage mechanism 910 mightinclude other similar instrumentalities for allowing computer programsor other instructions or data to be loaded into computing system 900.Such instrumentalities might include, for example, a fixed or removablestorage unit 922 and an interface 920. Examples of such storage units922 and interfaces 920 can include a program cartridge and cartridgeinterface, a removable memory (for example, a flash memory or otherremovable memory system) and memory slot, a PCMCIA slot and card, andother fixed or removable storage units 922 and interfaces 920 that allowsoftware and data to be transferred from the storage unit 922 tocomputing system 900.

Computing system 900 might also include a communications interface 924.Communications interface 924 might be used to allow software and data tobe transferred between computing system 900 and external devices.Examples of communications interface 924 might include a modem orsoftmodem, a network interface (such as an Ethernet, network interfacecard, WiMedia, IEEE 902.XX or other interface), a communications port(such as for example, a USB port, IR port, RS232 port Bluetoothinterface, or other port), or other communications interface. Softwareand data transferred via communications interface 924 might typically becarried on signals, which can be electronic, electromagnetic (whichincludes optical) or other signals capable of being exchanged by a givencommunications interface 924. These signals might be provided tocommunications interface 92$ via a channel 928. This channel 928 mightcarry signals and might be implemented using a wired or wirelesscommunication medium. Some examples of a channel might include a phoneline, a cellular link, an RF link, an optical link, a network interface,a local or wide area network, and other wired or wireless communicationschannels.

In this document, the terms “computer program medium” and “computerusable medium” are used to, generally refer to media such as, forexample, memory 908, storage unit 920, media 914, and signals on channel928. These and other various forms of computer program media or computerusable media may be involved in carrying one or more sequences of one ormore instructions to a processing device for execution Such instructionsembodied on the medium, are generally referred to as “computer programcode” or a “computer program product” (which may be grouped in the formof computer programs or other groupings). When executed, suchinstructions might enable the computing system 900 to perform featuresor functions of the present invention as discussed herein.

While various embodiments of the present invention have been describedabove, it should be understood that they have been presented by way ofexample only, and not of limitation. Likewise, the various diagrams maydepict an example architectural or other configuration for theinvention, which is done to aid in understanding the features andfunctionality that can be included in the invention. The invention isnot restricted to the illustrated example architectures orconfigurations, but the desired features can be implemented using avariety of alternative architectures and configurations. Indeed, it willbe apparent to one of skill in the art how alternative functional,logical or physical partitioning and configurations can be implementedto implement the desired features of the present invention. Also, amultitude of different constituent system names other than thosedepicted herein can be applied to the various partitions. Additionally,with regard to flow diagrams, operational descriptions and methodclaims, the order in which the steps are presented herein shall notmandate that various embodiments be implemented to perform the recitedfunctionality in the same order unless the context dictates otherwise.

Although the invention is described above in terms of various exemplaryembodiments and implementations, it should be understood that thevarious features, aspects and functionality described in one or more ofthe individual embodiments are not limited in their applicability to theparticular embodiment with which they are described, but instead can beapplied, alone or in various combinations, to one or more of the otherembodiments of the invention, whether or not such embodiments aredescribed and whether or not such features are presented as being a partof a described embodiment. Thus, the breadth and scope of the presentinvention should not be limited by any of the above-described exemplaryembodiments.

Terms and phrases used in this document, and variations thereof unlessotherwise expressly stated, should be construed as open ended as opposedto limiting. As examples of the foregoing: the term “including” shouldbe read as meaning “including, without limitation” or the like; the term“example” is used to provide exemplary instances of the item indiscussion, not an exhaustive or limiting list thereof, the terms “a” or“an” should be read as meaning “at least one,” “one or more” or thelike; and adjectives such as “conventional,” “traditional,” “normal,”“standard,” “known” and terms of similar meaning should not be construedas limiting the item described to a given time period or to an itemavailable as of a given time, but instead should be read to encompassconventional, traditional, normal, or standard technologies that may beavailable or known now or at any time in the future. Likewise, wherethis document refers to technologies that would be apparent or known toone of ordinary skill in the art, such technologies encompass thoseapparent or known to the skilled artisan now or at any time in thefuture.

The presence of broadening words and phrases such as “one or more,” “atleast” “but not limited to” or other like phrases in some instancesshall not be read to mean that the narrower case is intended or requiredin instances where such broadening phrases may be absent. The use of theterm “system” does not imply that the components or functionalitydescribed or claimed as part of the system are all configured in acommon package. Indeed, an or all of the various components of a system,whether control logic or other components, can be combined in a singlepackage or separately maintained and can further be distributed inmultiple groupings or packages or across multiple locations.

Additionally, the various embodiments set forth herein are described interms of exemplary block diagrams, flow charts and other illustrations.As will become apparent to one of ordinary skill in the art afterreading this document, the illustrated embodiments and their variousalternatives can be implemented without confinement to the illustratedexamples. For example, block diagrams and their accompanying descriptionshould not be construed as mandating a particular architecture orconfiguration.

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 15. A computer or mobile telephone based system forreal-time communication authorization, the system comprising: acommunication device; an authorization device; and a real-time accesscontrol server for accessing the Internet through an Internet gatewaydevice different than that of the communication device or theauthorization device, wherein the real-time access control server isconfigured to receive a communication request from the communicationdevice, wherein the communication request comprises a specifiedcommunication technology selected from a set of supported communicationtechnologies, verify a pre-approval status of the communication request,store the communication request in an approval queue if the preapprovalstatus is false and alert a user with an option to approve thecommunication request to enable real-time communication by the firstcommunication device by executing at least one action, issue an alert tothe authorization device, and receive one or more authorizationparameters that define communication protocols and a level ofcommunication for at least one action approved from the authorizationdevice, wherein the one or more authorization parameters comprise anenablement flag, wherein the communication device is a computer or amobile telephone.
 16. The system of claim 15, wherein the real-timeaccess control server further includes a communication controller, thecommunication controller configured to enable at least one action by thecommunication device using the specified communication technology if theenablement flag is set to true.
 17. The system of claim 15, wherein theset of supported communication technologies includes telephonic voicecommunication technology, short message service text technology, instantmessenger technology, social media messenger technology, social mediaposting technology, video conference technology, video game messengertechnology, or email.
 18. The system of claim 15, wherein the real-timeaccess control server further includes a verification engine, theverification engine configured to uniquely identify a user according toone or more identity parameters.
 19. The system of claim 18, wherein theone or more identity parameters includes manual parameters or automatedparameters.
 20. The system of claim 19, wherein the automated parameterscomprise a first name, a last name, a date of birth, an email address, aphysical address, a phone number, or a social security number.
 21. Thesystem of claim 15, wherein the communication device and theauthorization device are configured to each register with the real-timeaccess control server using a shared account.
 22. The system of claim15, wherein the real-time access control server is locally hosted on aprivate local area network.
 23. The system of claim 15, wherein thereal-time access control server is hosted on a proxy server.
 24. Thesystem of claim 15, wherein the authorization device deactivates andreactivates communication or internet-based services enabling at leastone action performed by the communication device in real-time.
 25. Thesystem of claim 24, wherein the authorization device is configured todeactivate and reactivate at least one selected action in accordancewith a pre-determined event.
 26. The system of claim 24, wherein theauthorization device is configured to deactivate and reactivate at leastone selected action in accordance with a pre-determined time schedule.27. A real-time access control appliance comprising a non-transitorycomputer readable medium having computer executable program codeembodied thereon, the computer executable program code configured to:receive, from a communication device, at least one action request,wherein the at least one action request comprises an action to beperformed by a specified communication technology selected from a set ofsupported communication technologies; store the at least one actionrequest in an action request queue on the access control appliance;issue an alert to an authorization device that the action request queuecontains the at least one action request for real-time approval by theauthorization device through communication with a real-time accesscontrol server; receive user authorization parameters from theauthorization device; and restrict the action performed by thecommunication device according to the user authorization parameters,wherein the authorization parameters comprise an enablement flag thatallows the authorization device to monitor and restrict actionsaccording to configurable user-specific authorization parameters thatdefine communication protocols and a level of communication for actionsapproved from the authorization device by the user.
 28. A computer ormobile telephone based system for activity authorization, the systemcomprising: a communication device; an authorization device; and areal-time access control server configured to communicate through theInternet with the communication device and the authorization device,wherein the real-time access control server is further configured toreceive an action request from the communication device, wherein theaction request comprises 1) at least one specified action selected froma set of supported actions and 2) at least one collaborator for the atleast one specified action, verify a pre-approval status of the actionrequest if the preapproval status is true, otherwise store the actionrequest in an approval queue and alert a user to optionally approve theaction request to enable the communication device to perform the atleast one specified action with the at least one collaborator, issue analert to the authorization device wherein the alert includes the statusof the action request, and receive one or more authorization parametersthat define an action protocol and a level of the at least one specifiedaction permitted to be performed by the communication device as approvedfrom the authorization device, wherein the one or more authorizationparameters includes an enablement flag permitting or denying the actionrequest and identifying the at least one collaborator for the activity,wherein the communication device is a computer or a mobile telephone andthe collaborator is a registered account associated with a user.
 29. Thesystem of claim 28, wherein the real-time access control server furthercomprises an action controller, the action controller being configuredto control the level of the at least one specified action between thecommunication device and the at least one collaborator using the atleast one specified action if the enablement flag is set to true. 30.The system of claim 28, wherein the set of supported actions comprisesvideo sharing technology, audio sharing technology, text sharingtechnology, image sharing technology, camera sharing technology, videoconference sharing technology, video game playing technology, or filesharing technology.
 31. The system of claim 28, wherein the real-timeaccess control server is further configured to record at least actionfrom the set of supported actions between the communication device andthe collaborator; store the at least one recorded action; receive arequest from the authorization device to transmit the at least onerecorded action; and transmit the at least one recorded action to theauthorization device.
 32. The system of claim 28, wherein theauthorization device is further configured to transmit a request toreceive from the real-time access control server at least one recordedaction between the communication device and the collaborator; receivethe at least one recorded action from the real time access controlserver in response to the request, wherein the at least one recordedaction may indicate no action has occurred; and display the at least onerecorded action on an output device connected to the authorizationdevice.
 33. The system of claim 28, wherein the computer or mobiletelephone based system includes a monitoring application on thecommunication device, executed on an electronic processor, wherein themonitoring application is configured to detect when an action betweenthe communication device and the collaborator has not been approved; andif an action between the communication device and the collaborator hasnot been approved, notify the authorization device, record the actionthat has not been approved, and transmit the recorded action that hasnot been approved to the real-time access control server.
 34. A computeror mobile telephone based system for activity authorization, the systemcomprising a real-time access control server configured to communicatewith at least one communication device and with an authorization device,wherein the real-time access control server is further configured toreceive an action request from the at least one communication device,wherein the action request comprises at least one specified actionselected from a set of supported actions; verify a pre-approval statusof the action request if the preapproval status is true, otherwise storethe action request in an approval queue and alert a user with an optionto approve the action request to enable the at least one communicationdevice to perform the action; issue an alert to the authorization devicewherein the alert includes the status of the action request; and receiveone or more authorization parameters that define at least one actionprotocol and a level of at least one action permitted to be performed bythe at least one communication device as approved from the authorizationdevice, wherein the one or more authorization parameters comprise anenablement flag permitting or denying the at least one action request,wherein the at least one communication device is a computer or a mobiletelephone registered with a user.
 35. The system of claim 34, whereinthe real-time access control server further comprises an actioncontroller, the action controller being configured to control the levelof at least one action that may be executed by the at least onecommunication device if the enablement flag is set to true.
 36. Thesystem of claim 34, wherein the set of permitted actions comprises videosharing technology, audio sharing technology, text sharing technology,image sharing technology, camera sharing technology, video conferencesharing technology, video game playing technology, or file sharingtechnology.
 37. The system of claim 35, wherein the real-time accesscontrol server is further configured to record at least one action ofthe at least one action that may be executed by the at least onecommunication device; store the at least one recorded action; receive arequest from the authorization device to transmit the at least onerecorded action; and transmit the at least one recorded action to theauthorization device.
 38. The system of claim 34, wherein theauthorization device is further configured to transmit a request toreceive from the real-time access control server at least one recordedaction executed by the at least one communication device; receive the atleast one recorded action from the real time access control server inresponse to the request, wherein the at least one recorded action mayindicate no action has occurred; and display the at least one recordedaction on an output device connected to the authorization device. 39.The system of claim 34, wherein the computer or mobile telephone basedsystem includes a monitoring application on the at least onecommunication device, executed on an electronic processor, wherein themonitoring application is configured to detect when an action executedon the at least one communication device has not been approved by thecomputer or mobile telephone based system; and if an unapproved actionis executed by the at least one communication device, notify theauthorization device, record the unapproved action, and transmit therecorded, unapproved action to the real-time access control server.